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Nalaya’s international upbringing has given her a very unique voice and approach to the art of intimacy.

Her work is inspired by the many cultures that have shaped her. And she simply has a very refined way of connecting to energy, which is noticeable in anything she records and creates.

I owe you a bit of a personal update I feel.

We’ve gone from Thailand to Mexico to Peru and now are in the US. It’s hard to keep up. Even for us, honestly.

Some patterns in our relationship are evidently being presented in this nomadic lifestyle… which we really don’t want. Our desires are clear but somehow it has taken us until now to see where the blockages are and how to break them.

So anyway, there’s a lot to this story and I will record an in detail podcast about it soon. More personal details of how we created these relational patterns and how to break through together…

But for now I suppose the personal update is about home and the tiny bit of clarity we’ve gotten.

The trip we made to Peru in May was the start of shaking up the ground beneath our feet. We questioned where we were at with more sincerity and allowed deeper truths to arise in what it is we both need to truly thrive.

And so, without even looking, a house was offered to us. It seemed such an obvious message from the universe so we took it, of course.

It’s still being built so in October we’ll return to establish one of our home bases there.

The other base will likely be in the forest up in the North of America, where we are now. The balance of both feels deeply nourishing and just right for what it is we envision for our family and our individual selves.

We’re in a bit of a swirl at the moment. As most breaking points they come with a built up pressure to ensure we can actually break through.

It’s both exciting and exhausting.

One thing is for sure, we have a great capacity to hold it all, and an incredible amount of love and devotion to move through challenges together.
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📷 @alchemy.of.awakening

I wanna share the most recent episode on "Insecuri

I wanna share the most recent episode on "Insecurity vs. Confidence". Sam and I recorded this 2 months ago, but with all the madness of life, I totally forgot to share it here.

I love and respect Sam for who she is - her intelligence, her wisdom, her embodiment as a sister, woman, partner and mother.

We're extremely aligned, and in so many ways so opposite! Which is what makes our connection so interesting and complimentary.

In this delicious conversation with Sam, we talk about our love journey's and what we are now able to see that wasn't obvious before we met our soulmates.

I'm sure you'll love this episode!

⚡Link to podcast in IG bio
⚡Listen on Spotify & Apple

You can connect with Sam on IG @alchemy.of.awakening - she does beautiful 1:1 work for women & mothers. She specialises in weaving traditional therapy & hypnotherapy.

At the bottom of every frozen heart, there’s a d

At the bottom of every frozen heart, there’s a drop or two of love… just enough to feed the birds. 💗

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Song by Ayla Shafer. Enjoy ⚡️

Song by Ayla Shafer. Enjoy ⚡️

It’s an art to know how to fight well. It’s

It’s an art to know how to fight well.

It’s challenging to say the hard things in hard time. But it’s probably harder to deal with the consequences of not saying anything at all.

Currently we’re in a difficult moment in life. The pressure is building, the earth is shaking, the sky is thundering…

And somehow it feels really good.

In every longterm partnership patterns are created. Some for the good some for the bad.

Once we have the awareness over what patterns are destructive, we need to activate a driving force to really finally break through to the other side.

That’s what a good fight is for.

Not to punch each other, but to punch and break down whatever is getting in the way of us being even greater together…

I pray Keilani will continue to be her flirtatious

I pray Keilani will continue to be her flirtatious self if we end up spending a lot more time up North.

I’m definitely experiencing a culture shock here in the western world. Its fascinating to see the many subtle ways in which it’s not possible to connect with strangers.

I’ve had moments on the metro and in the park in which men seemed almost afraid to pick up my stroller as I was stumbling to make my way up the stairs.

I could see their instincts wanted to act, but they held back.

My experiences as a mother have been in Thailand, Mexico and Peru. In all these cultures, offering support is just a natural way of living. There is no question.

People would always come over to chat with Keilani or play with her while I go to the toilet or while we’re waiting for food at a restaurant.

The environments we’ve lived in so far have supported the confidence I see in Keilani to express herself and feel free to connect.

It seems so natural…

But here… it isn’t. And it’s really quite sad.

It’s different to “know” about what goes on in the modern world and to then actually “witness” it.

It’s so fascinating to see what the loss of culture does to humanity over time. I’ll share some other thoughts about that in another post 🙏🏼⚡️

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We ALL have the tendency to reject what we don’t

We ALL have the tendency to reject what we don’t like.

And yet… life is based on the tantric principles that both will continue to swirl into one another to create life, essentially.

To create a reaction, create a moment, create whatever experience it is you are ready for.

⚡️You can’t give give give without receiving
⚡️The day cannot exist without the night
⚡️We need darker moments to help us appreciate the goodness in life
⚡️True courage arises by facing our fears

That is Tantra.

The dance between pleasure and pain, the masculine and the feminine, the darkness and the light.

The true purpose of intimacy is to connect. Not just connect to what feels good. But connect. To everything…

I’m stuck in a cycle of waking up at 4am and una

I’m stuck in a cycle of waking up at 4am and unable to fall back asleep. It’s been a couple of weeks now.

It’s beyond annoying.

Intuitively I feel it has something to do with my gut health. Does anyone specific information or experience with this?

It feels like a “symptom” rather than the issue itself being insomnia. You know what I mean?

Anyhow… any reflection is appreciated 💗🙏🏼

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